It's an overwhelming journey. A labor of love. A huge responsibility. When caring for an aging or sick parent, spouse, child or another loved one, there are many big decisions you’ll have to make — from medical and financial issues to housing and legal concerns. Being prepared for what's to come can minimize expenses, reduce stress and help you maximize the quality time you have together.
First, keep in mind that caregiver responsibilities and duties vary by situation. There’s no right or wrong answer to the question, “What do caregivers do?”
As you consider caretaker roles and responsibilities, this checklist may help you and your loved one take the journey together – and make things a little easier for both of you.
Talk through medical issues.
Make sense of your loved one's finances.
Understand the person's wishes and needs (for today and the future) by asking these questions:
Make sure the appropriate legal documents are in place once you understand your loved one’s needs. Documents include:
Discuss living arrangements. When choosing the best living arrangement for your loved one – whether it's remaining in their own home, moving in with you, downsizing, or choosing an assisted living or residential care facility —consider:
Know that the right living situation may change over time. If your loved one elects to remain in his/her own home, modifications such as adequate lighting, railings and ramps may have to be installed.